Moving Forward

Today, a movie has inspired me. I'm sure most chick-flick obsessed girls out there have seen it too: He's Just Not That Into You. Yeah I know, sounds dumb, but really it has taught me something. Basically, I have been crushing on this guy in my drama class for about the past 7 months... and i now totally regret it. I thought he liked me. There were "signs", flirting, all that crap. But you know what. NOTHING HAPPENED. Did I get asked out? NO. Did he admit his secret love for me? NO. So here is what I learned from that move:

A. If he likes you, he WILL make a move

B. Stop OBSESSING over "signs"-girls just twist up every little thing guys do to make ourselves BELIEVE that he likes us

C. Every girl is the exception

Okay..so I suppose I should really explain letter C. What that means is, most of the time, you have to follow the "guy rules", like if he likes you he will do something about it, signs are bullshit, don't take cards, if he doesn't call within a week he's not calling, etc. etc. But you know what, every single guy out there has one exception... basically their soulmate or lobster (friends fans out there) or the person who will be the love of their life. You never know if you are the exception until it is shown, so try not to act like a dumby around all guys. I know that's hard but it will help you from heartbreak

So basically, for the next couple months I suppose, I'm going to work on getting over this ass-hole of a crush I have liked. Because you know what, I'm too good for him. I know that sounds dumb, but I think its kinda true... if he was just gonna lead me on with flirting and crap, then I am. No one should use anyone like that. Its a horrible thing to do. And I hope it never happens to you. I have learned my lesson.

Hopefully high school will bring on better things.